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Black Magic

Jun 14 2010 Published by under About Lingerie, Buying Lingerie, Lingerie Advice

Sexy Black Lingerie

If I had to spend the rest of my life wearing only one thing, it would be the color black. There is just something so rich and classy about it and I love the way it looks on me. Many of my friends feel similarly. When I have an occasional wardrobe crisis, I automatically reach for something black because it’s easy and you simply can’t go wrong in choosing it. It goes anywhere and is classic and stylish. This might be why every woman has the quintessential “little black dress” in her closet. Black is amazingly versatile and with the right accessories can be dressed up or down to fit most any wardrobe need.

Black flatters the body and because of its rich darkness, creates an instantly slimming effect on the body. This translates especially well to all types of lingerie, from the very basic to the ultra tantalizing. We women always want to look our best, but especially so when we stripped down to our undies. Black lingerie is definitely going to set your assets off to their best advantage, even in the simplest styles.

Black basics

Black is great for basics. If you are still creating or wanting to add to your every day lingerie wardrobe, the color black is a perfect place to begin. Bras, panties, shapers, slips and camisoles are readily available in black and the bonus is that these pieces will automatically look 10 times sexier just by virtue of the fact that they are the color black. There is just something irresistibly sexy about the deep and sultry color of the night.

Take your black lingerie one step further and use it for unapologetic seductive purposes. Black is the obvious choice for teddies, bustiers, corsets, g-strings, negligees and other super sexy lingerie choices designed to be ultra dramatic and super sexy. Black lingerie worn in the bedroom absolutely will take center stage and your man will not be able to keep his eyes off of you—or his hands.

Life is filled with so many choices, but sometimes it’s easier just to not have to make one. Sometimes it’s easier to just not to have to think too hard and just stick with a tried and true staple. Black. It’s simply magical. Or should I say black magic?  xo J.

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Fantastic Fantasy

Jun 08 2010 Published by under About Lingerie, Dating & Relationships, Lingerie Advice

Fantasy Lingerie

As women we are all too familiar with the lingerie basics we’ve come to know and trust as part of our daily repertoire. As the years go by, each of us have our favorite brands and styles of the necessities that we need to clothe and flatter our bodies appropriately underneath it all. The basics are important and necessary, but are not necessarily the lingerie pieces we would want to use for bedroom playtime or for sexy fun. More likely than not, these basics play little role in our sexual fantasies.

Fantasy lingerie is something quite different from basic lingerie. Fantasy lingerie is designed to be used for role-playing, or to create a mood above and beyond the basics of normal every day life.

Live Your Fantasy

When used in the bedroom, fantasy lingerie can not only can create a very sexual mood, but it can also help a woman portray a more confident sexual being than she may be able to do on her own. In this sense, lingerie can be used as an enticement, a lure or even a prop to create an out of the ordinary sexual scenario that is anything but mundane or ordinary. Fantasy lingerie can be a huge boon to sexual confidence.

Fantasy lingerie can be somewhat costume-y and it’s definitely designed to be sexually over the top and very provocative. This type of lingerie is meant to be very seductive and is to be worn in your most private and intimate moments. Although the styles of fantasy lingerie can be sexually extreme, they can also be very flattering to the female form and are definite attention getter’s. If you are looking for a way to spice up an old relationship or light a fire in a new one, look into some fantasy lingerie as an effective and sultry tool to make your bedroom absolutely smoking hot! xo J.

Beautiful Fantasy

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Naked? Or Almost Naked?

Nearly naked and very sexy

There is no denying that a woman’s naked body can be very sexy.  It occurred to me today, however, that sometimes it might be possible (and maybe even probable) that complete nudity may not be as sexy as scantily clad or partially dressed might be.  Partial nudity may very well be sexier than buck-naked.  Let me explain.

Mystery carries with it a certain allure.  Anticipation and teasing also are known aphrodisiacs.  Thus it stands to reason that nearly naked could be even more sexually arousing than totally naked because there is a certain anticipation factor that goes along with it.  This can be very sexually arousing to both men and women.

Picture this scenario.  A man and a woman are dining in a dimly lit restaurant.  They are seated in a fairly private booth in the back of the establishment.  The couple seems to be enjoying good food and wine, when the woman coyly looks up at her partner and says, ”You know, my dear, I’m not wearing any panties underneath my dress.”  I wonder how much longer that guy is going to be able to focus on eating or if he fairly immediately is calling to the waiter announcing, “Check, please!”

This illustrates how just a little bit of the sexually out of the ordinary can be highly arousing, and the woman certainly didn’t have to get naked to do it.  In fact, to the outside world, she is fully dressed.  To her date however, well—he can’t get her out of there and into bed fast enough.   The imagination of and the anticipation of what is to come is more hot and arousing than what can actually be seen.

There is also something sexually stimulating to a man when a woman is confident in her sexuality.  Sometimes it can be a bit nerve-wracking for a gal to be fully exposed in front of her guy, I don’t care how perfect her body is.  Naked is still–well, naked.  Wearing some peek-a-boo lingerie that essentially frames all the best parts of your body, perhaps covering up some of the less than perfect parts might just be the best of both worlds.  Crotchless panties and camisoles with no cups are two such examples of getting naked without really being naked at all.  The look is extremely sexy, but you still have an air of mystique about you that is very erotic to a man, and to the woman wearing the lingerie as well.  Besides, a pair of crotchless panties might be just the ticket if you want to “get it on” somewhere less than conventional or maybe someplace slightly risky.   In this instance “naked” perhaps might not be very practical.  The point is to have fun and live a little dangerously—not to get arrested.  It just might be that not-so-naked may be the sexiest thing of all.

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